this post has been inspired by the news abt my frenz which i have been receivin....well nothin much to celebrate......one of my friends has had a break up...well they were one of best pairs around.....another of my friends ...well he has been in love with a girl for sm yrs now.....even though she was not interested ...this guy was madly in love...and got to admit ...he was true to his feelings..........and now that girl has married smone else....he has taken the flight to destruction....... turnin to alcohol..........and sm more depressin news.........
now all this has got me thinkin abt relationships..........why do ppl keep movin in and out of them........wht keeps ppl in a relationship and wht makes them move out of it..........well if love is smthin which is meant to be a cause of happiness...why does it get so much sadness in tow........
and comin to marriages...........how many are real?...how many ppl really luv their spouses for the people they r ...and not just bcos they r their spouses...........many of these marriagesseem to be just compromises........
ok lookin for answers i felt that at the end of it.....it does not matter whether u r in a relationship or not..it just matters whether u r happy or not............even in spite of so many ppl finidn a raw deal ...ppl still fall in love ...still look out for relationships..becos they r still in that elusive search of happiness............so they keep searchin till they find it....
but do we forget the journey in search of the destination...............is nt life a journey rather than a destination...........so why dont we search for things...however small they may be...tht bring on a smile on our faces..............well ppl cringe whenever they have trouble in relationships....but is nt the fact that they have been rejected painin them more..... than the reason that a particular person has rejected them...cos if sm one loves sm one it is meant to be unconditional..cos love is unconditional by nature............but that is not the case......everyone has his /her expectations....this is where the trouble comes............
so simply puttin it......no expectations no dissapointments..............let us live life for wht it is....and take it as it comes.........let us not forget to live the present regrettin the past or fearin the future.............well it is easy to say that but quite difficult to implement it........all would have got into this stage at sm pt........everyone will learn to deal with life in due course of time.....everyone falls ....but one who gets up and gets up fast wins the race..................
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