mars and venus

they say men are from mars and women are from venus...............if its rt...did the earth belong to eunuchs????

anyways on a serious front.......are men and women so diametrically different.............logically speaking ............strippin out all the societal mores...both are human beings..........the differences if any should be as normal as between a guy and guy or a gal and gal........

but why does this gender divide comin..ok lets not get into women oppresion and differentiation and stuff now..it does not help complicating a complicated issue further .....rt.....

lets consider people from say upper middle class....people most likely to consider and bring up their kids equally in atleast most of the things...............and lets consider people who are in similar situations ..people working in say similar circumstances.............

after similarising so much..still differences do occur............well may be iam sounding too very ignorant.......but this is something to wonder about ...when people do react in alarming different ways...which can be generalised by only one logical explanation ...their gender...........

i thought when all the caricatures and stereotypes which we see in movies are exxaggerated generalisations...but imagine my alarm when i see them for real......u can guess that she will react in this manner and he will react in this way ...down to a T...........

thts wht is so boring about the whole thing.......gals never cease to surprise me..and iam bored by the surprises.......and few things are so obvious that u want to raise above them..and u just cant......

u will find that every gal likes choclates...every gal will be mighty pleased if u praise her(esp her beauty..existent or non -existent)...........lot many charecteristics..which everyone knows.....and so boring even to post here..............and every time i meantion this to a gal..she will invariably say...iam not like this...whereas she would be the same in 90 % of those things......some gal wud may be turn up at this blog.....and say the same thing..........

well iam not saying guys are good and great....we do have our idiosyncrasies.....cricket football or any sport will excite us more than anything else..........guys will think of adventure first sentiment later........guys may be more interested in gettin physical most of the times..........guys get most freaked ou after gadgets....................

but why are these generalisations.........why cant people be more varied , more interestin....it would be much more fun..if u meet some gal who cud atleast be different...good or bad is a later concern...........

but you see...iam thinkin just like all other guys do............damn these generalisations......